10 unspoken things between wife and husband but expect from each other

A wife may not always verbalize her expectations from her husband, but that does not mean she does not have any. She may have some unspoken needs and desires that she hopes her husband will fulfill, or some silent complaints that she wishes her husband will address. Here are few points which wide does not speak about but expects from her husband:

1. She expects him to listen to her attentively and empathetically when she shares her feelings, thoughts, or experiences. She does not want him to interrupt, judge, or offer solutions unless she asks for them. She just wants him to be there for her and show that he cares.
2. She expects him to appreciate her efforts and achievements, whether they are big or small. She wants him to notice and acknowledge the things she does for him, for their family, or for herself. She wants him to compliment her and celebrate her successes with her.
3. She expects him to respect her opinions and preferences, even if they are different from his. She wants him to value her input and perspective, and not dismiss or criticize them. She wants him to support her decisions and choices, and not undermine or overrule them.
4. She expects him to communicate with her openly and honestly. She wants him to share his feelings, thoughts, or experiences with her, and not hide or lie about them. She wants him to express his needs and desires, and not expect her to read his mind. She wants him to tell her what he likes and dislikes, what he wants and doesn't want, what he is happy or unhappy about.
5. She expects him to spend quality time with her regularly. She wants him to make her a priority and show interest in her life. She wants him to do things with her that they both enjoy, or try new things that she suggests. She wants him to be present and attentive, and not distracted or bored.
6. She expects him to be affectionate and romantic with her. She wants him to hug her, kiss her, hold her hand, cuddle with her, and make love to her. She wants him to surprise her with flowers, chocolates, cards, or gifts. She wants him to say "I love you" often, and mean it.
7. She expects him to be loyal and faithful to her. She wants him to be committed and devoted to their marriage, and not flirt with or cheat on her with other women. She wants him to respect their vows and honor their bond.
8. She expects him to be supportive and encouraging of her dreams and goals. She wants him to help her pursue her passions and interests, and not hold her back or discourage her. She wants him to cheer her on and motivate her when she faces challenges or setbacks.
9. She expects him to be respectful and polite to her family and friends. She wants him to get along with them and treat them well, even if he does not like them or agree with them. She wants him to attend family gatherings and social events with her, and not complain or make excuses.
10. She expects him to be responsible and reliable in his roles as a husband, father, provider, etc. She wants him to do his share of household chores  and childcare duties , and not leave them all to her. She wants him to manage his finances  wisely and contribute to their savings . She wants him to take care of his health  and well-being , and not neglect or abuse them.
11. She expects him to be fun-loving and adventurous with her. She wants him to have a sense of humor  and make her laugh . She wants him to be spontaneous  and surprise her with fun activities or trips . She wants him
to be willing to try new things  with her, whether they are foods , hobbies , sports , etc.
12. She expects him to be understanding

A husband may not always verbalize his expectations from his wife, but that does not mean he does not have any. He may have some unspoken needs and desires that he hopes his wife will fulfill, or some silent complaints that he wishes his wife will address. Here are few aspects that a husband does not speak about but expects from his wife -

1. He expects her to respect him and his opinions, even if they are different from hers. He wants her to value his input and perspective, and not dismiss or criticize them. He wants her to support his decisions and choices, and not undermine or overrule them.
2. He expects her to appreciate him and his efforts, whether they are big or small. He wants her to notice and acknowledge the things he does for her, for their family, or for himself. He wants her to compliment him and celebrate his successes with him.
3. He expects her to listen to him attentively and empathetically when he shares his feelings, thoughts, or experiences. He does not want her to interrupt, judge, or offer solutions unless he asks for them. He just wants her to be there for him and show that she cares.
4. He expects her to communicate with him openly and honestly. He wants her to share her feelings, thoughts, or experiences with him, and not hide or lie about them. He wants her to express her needs and desires, and not expect him to read her mind. He wants her to tell him what she likes and dislikes, what she wants and doesn't want, what she is happy or unhappy about.
5. He expects her to spend quality time with him regularly. He wants her to make him a priority and show interest in his life. He wants her to do things with him that they both enjoy, or try new things that he suggests. He wants her to be present and attentive, and not distracted or bored.
6. He expects her to be affectionate and romantic with him. He wants her to hug him, kiss him, hold his hand, cuddle with him, and make love to him. He wants her to surprise him with flowers, chocolates, cards, or gifts. He wants her to say "I love you" often, and mean it.
7. He expects her to be loyal and faithful to him. He wants her to be committed and devoted to their marriage, and not flirt with or cheat on him with other men. He wants her to respect their vows and honor their bond.
8. He expects her to be supportive and encouraging of his dreams and goals. He wants her to help him pursue his passions and interests, and not hold him back or discourage him. He wants her to cheer him on and motivate him when he faces challenges or setbacks.
9. He expects her to be respectful and polite to his family and friends. He wants her to get along with them and treat them well, even if she does not like them or agree with them. He wants her to attend family gatherings and social events with him, and not complain or make excuses.
10. He expects her to be responsible and reliable in her roles as a wife, mother, homemaker, etc. He wants her to do her share of household chores  and childcare duties , and not leave them all to him. He wants her to manage their finances  wisely and contribute to their savings . He wants her to take care of her health  and well-being , and not neglect or abuse them.
11. He expects her to be fun-loving and adventurous with him. He wants her to have a sense of humor  and make him laugh . He wants her to be spontaneous  and surprise him with fun activities or trips . He wants her to be willing to try new things  with him, whether they are foods , hobbies , sports , etc.
12. He expects her to be understanding

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